Abuse what is it and how to deal with it

If someone's actions are hurting you and you inform them of it

And they are doing nothing to change the behavior or the action

then that is abuse

Some things might make changing their behavior more difficult To change like being neurodivergent

People can't read your mind so you have to explain to them exactly what it is that's hurting you

Their actions to stop the behavior to change their action might be invisible so you need to discuss it

You Need to be able to see and understand that they are trying in some way even if they are failing

But they still have to be trying to change the behavior if it hurts you

or you need to Try to leave the situation in some way.

Long term abuse can damage your mind and warp your perception of the world.

Most of us are a part of cultures that view Harding and abusing some people as being OK

And people that say that they care about you should not be intentionally abusive towards you.

It's your job to tell them and keep reminding them if something hurts you

But it's their job to try and remember and to change their actions because they care for you.