Habitual Liars that Target you

People that habitually and repeatedly lie about you

Ultimately if you're going to have people that lie about you in your life

You're going to have to inform anyone that you might form any sort of attachment with that they will lie about you and they are not to be trusted

Even if you do manage to escape from them

at some point you will have to inform the people that are closest to you about them in case they attempt to contact them without your knowledge

It feels cruel to have to do so

Particularly if it's someone that you have cared about before

But if they're going to persist in their behavior then you have no other choice than to expose their behavior

And ultimately their true actions

This may seem unnecessarily harsh or an extraordinary amount of work you have to do just in order to form attachments to people

Because people do not automatically come to you whatever someone has said something about you that is a lie even if it does not fit with what they know if your character

you have to warn them ahead of time or they won't trust you at all

Particularly if it's someone that it seems like should be trustworthy

like someone you care about

like close family members

Or a teacher

This might impact their reputation in the eyes of people around them

However the reputation is mainly becoming more accurate

People that lie about you often wish others to do the bullying and abuse for them

They might even appear to be kind to you at times especially when other people around

They seek to alienate you from everyone around you so that you don't have friends or mentors or anyone that you can trusts or that will trust you

Even if it's just one lie it often festers with people especially if it's something that you refer to often

You can be the most painfully honest person in the world and it won't matter

Some poison is so potent that one drop is enough

One lie told repeatedly to everyone around you to destroy a life

And once they think you've lied about one large thing they often think you've just lied about everything

And then the abuse bullying and harassment starts

The people that have believed a lie have chosen to

And their actions are their own responsibility

The same as their judgments are

I may have chosen not to speak with you or ask you about it but merely assume that the lies true

And you don't even know what the lie is because no one bothered to actually talk to you about it

Why would they believe you? They just assume that anything that you had to say would be a lie anyway right

And when the person has access to everyone that you know all of humanity seems cruel