Lying about people having invisible disabilities

When you lie about someone having an invisible disability

You're denying their struggles and their successes

You're often denying something that has in a very significant way defined their life

It is like saying a person that is paralyzed from the waist down can walk because they have legs and you can just will yourself better

And if you can read some but it's like learning to walk using leg braces and crutches

Having to treat every book you read as some sort of code breaking exercise

And then they pointing that out as proof that you don't really have a disability

Everyone around you telling you to hide it and leave use of people that lie to people exploit that

Because everyone's been telling you to act like you don't have one to make it as invisible as possible to other people because they might exploit it

And then someone lies about it to everyone they come into contact with

They are telling everyone around them that you have informed of the disability that you are a liar and not to be trusted

So that other people treat youeven more cruelly then they have

This affects anything that someone needs a good reputation for jobs loans anything of that kind

I don't give a fuck if you want to believe that you have an invisibility disability or not

but you do not get to decide other people's internal experiences

If you want to hide your head in the sand and deny reality that is up to you

but you do not get to decide for other people

Even if you are a doctor

if you are not their doctor

you do not get to decide or make judgments about them

It takes a certain kind of evil

to live with someone most of your life that has invisible disabilities with you seeing

the signs all of the time and

them requesting help from you and begging for you It

to then inform people that they are lying it's the most hurtful evil thing

Without doing actual external physical harm

Depressed people can often seem happy and even at times be happy

People with learning disabilities can be extraordinarily smart

And still have a hard time with reading writing or mathematics

People that are in pain can force themselves to do things sometimes

You do not get to decide what is or is not a disability

and unless you are their doctor or testing the person you do not get to decide whether or not a person has a disability or not

You do not get to talk about whether or not that person may or may not have a disability with other people

If you don't think someone has an invisible disability then you stay the fuck away from them because you are a bad person and they are vulnerable people

That do not need you in their lives