What are some socially unwritten rules which you had to learn
Looking at peoples faces when I talk to them
and to smile even if I'm not happy
so people don't think I'm mad at them
or be a downer.
My dads side of the family were in the military he often talked to me about
group dynamics and the way my action could affect every ones morale,
but just because I know something doesn't = I know what to do.
The Golden Rule the principle of treating others as you want to be treated,
doesn't always work if you'r not NT.
The right thing to do is almost never fixed and always changing.
NT's often think they are telling you the truth but because they do things without having to think about them like "look people in the eye when they're talk to them" they don't know that they don't really like that
and you have to look a way a lot when you are talking to people
if you don't people think there is something wrong with
you or you'r creepy and they don't know why.
Looking at people is like making listening sounds to let people know you are listening.
You make the sound every now and then to let you know we are still paying attention.
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